Friday, January 27, 2012
27 January 2012 ....
Today gonna complete what i wanna blog for the passed few day ....>< ...
Well... There is so many thing i wanna update for CNY 2012...
& Some personal tot ....
This Year is a YEAR OF DRAGON !~
& today is the 5 day of Chinese New Year !~
Last week was Reunion Dinner ...
This is my first time i spend my reunion dinner at Huang's Family ...
And this is also the first time i cook a reunion dinner for a family ...
Tot it was a tired and busy day ...
But i enjoy over it ...
It is fun ...
This reunion dinner also had an new member taking part...
That is ... my son RAVE...
Hehe ....
He took the first sit ...
Actually ..
Husband Ah ma also coming over for the reunion dinner at our hse ...
But ... due to an incident which caused them cant come ...
Actually his ah ma is not very sure weather she is coming a not ....
She cant make up her mind ....
She call since the day before Reunion dinner ...
And complain that there was nobody at home at the reunion dinner ...
So we came out to a conclusion ...
On decided ask her along ...
But in the end she stilll choose not to come ...
Cos of the accident ...
Actually New Year should be a happy one ...
And old thing should put dwn ...
So i decided not to said since matter is rest ...
Let talk about the day i spend on my CNY With HUANG'S FAMILY ...
On the first day of new year ...
I went to my Husband side for Cny greeting ....
& It is my first time pay a vist to his Father side relative ..
Tot we had been together for so many year ...
Had heard abt how bad his aunt was ...
But ... from what i see ... everything is not that bad as i tot ...
Oly one of the aunt ...
Who is so jealous over my mum in law carrying my son ...
But is a small issue ...
So i didnt really bother ...
I jus sat a side with my Sis in law and chat ...
On the 2nd day ...
We went to his Mum side relative ...
This side relative i come before ....
so is not rare with their relative ...
But due to some accident ...
The whole room is so wired ....
That is all about the the two day celebration ..
Oh ... tml i will be gg to my auntie house ..
hehe ...
So excited ....
Cos can gamble ...
Cant wait ...
Next i would like to talk about some personal thinking ....
I had been a mother for 9 mth ...
Having Rave, is blissful and Sorrow thing ...
Blissful is because ...
I can tk care of him myself ...
And see him start to take and learn his very first step ...
Sorrow is because of his health and the tube and Trach he had to put on ...
Haix ...
I know my son is working hard on his recovery ...
And i believe he can do it ...
He is not pity ...
But he is blissful ....
He is growing well ...
He is not suffering ....
I thank everyone for the concern ...
But i'm the mum of Rave ..
I know what is the best for him ...
I hope that you guys do respect me as his mum ..
And understand me ...
I dun like my son to be exhibit ....
He is not a display on exhibition hall or shop ...
He is a human ...
A baby ...
Who is different from other normal baby .....
Please dun use a different or look down eye view to judge him...
If u dun lyk him ...
their dun see him or touch him ...
If u lyk him ...
U can look, touch ... but not gossip ...
No matter what it take to cost ..
I will protect with all i can ...
Even u r my mum ...
I also dun care ...
Because ..
I had grown up ...
I know what i m doing ...
U r not me ...
U dun noe how i feel when someone said him till very nasty ...
& i noe what is right for him ...
If i dun have the right to make the choice ...
Then ... i dun tink im fit to be his mum ...
I just wanna u all respect me ...
Dun always tink that u r always right ....
JaCe revealed the secret on
11:24 PM
